I wouldn\u2019t call myself a rebel. \u201cReluctant rule follower\u201d is probably more accurate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tell me something has to be done a certain way and there is a pretty good chance my first thought will be: Says who?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n There is something almost uniquely American about that reaction. We admire the guy who questions conventional wisdom, challenges authority and figures out a better way. Some of the best things about our country were built by people who refused to accept, \u201cThat\u2019s just the way it\u2019s done.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n That independent streak can be a virtue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But it can also become a trap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Because eventually \u201csays who?\u201d can turn into \u201cnobody tells me what to do.\u201d And once I become the final authority on everything: what is true, what is right, what marriage means, what sex means, what I owe another person, even what God should expect of me, I have created a world in which the only person left to correct me is me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That may sound like freedom. I\u2019m not sure it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Look at marriage. Cohabitation has become so normal that recent research shows most Americans now in their late 30s and early 40s have lived with an unmarried partner at some point. Other research projects that roughly one-third of today\u2019s youngest adults may reach middle age having never married.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Obviously, there are many reasons behind those numbers. But they point toward a larger cultural shift: institutions that once told us, This is bigger than you<\/em>increasingly have to justify themselves to us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Marriage. Family. Community. Church.<\/p>\n\n\n\n We reserve the right to decide which parts we will accept.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And that brings us to this Sunday\u2019s Gospel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In this upcoming Sunday Gospel (Matthew 18:15\u201320), Jesus gives His disciples a surprisingly specific process for dealing with someone who has done wrong. First, go to the man privately. If that fails, bring one or two others. And if that fails, Jesus says something that should catch the attention of anyone with a strong independent streak: \u201cTell the church.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Notice what He doesn\u2019t say. <\/p>\n\n\n\n He doesn\u2019t say, \u201cDecide for yourself.\u201d He doesn\u2019t say, \u201cFollow your own truth.\u201d He doesn\u2019t even say, \u201cJust pray about it and do whatever feels right.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n He points them toward an authority outside themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Then He goes further: \u201cWhatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n For Catholics, that matters. The Church is not simply a voluntary association of people who just happen to believe similar things. Christ left behind a Church with real authority.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And that can be difficult for people like me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I like having the final say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The problem is that I am also perfectly capable of being wrong. I can rationalize what I want. I can convince myself that my motives are better than they are. And if I look long enough, I can usually find somebody willing to tell me that whatever I already wanted to do is perfectly reasonable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sometimes the authority we resist most is the authority we need precisely because it can tell us no.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That doesn\u2019t mean every person in authority is right. The Church is made up of flawed human beings, and her history gives Catholics plenty of reasons to remain humble. But imperfect authority doesn\u2019t mean we are better off with no authority at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After all, I\u2019m flawed too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If I accept Christ only when He agrees with me, I\u2019m not really following Christ. I\u2019m following myself\u2014with Jesus along as an adviser.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Maybe that is the challenge in this Sunday\u2019s Gospel for those of us with a little rebellious streak. 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